Sunday, November 27, 2011

"Parent of the Year"

This is something that has been bothering me for awhile now, and i need to vent.

Why do ppl pretend to be such "loving, caring, perfect" parents on Facebook?! Like, seriously. I can't stand when ppl post about how much they love their kid, and blah blah blah. If you have to continue to remind everyone how much you "love" your kid, there's something wrong there.
If you spend all your free time: clubbing, going out, getting wasted and etc, than spending time with your kid, you SUCK as a parent! If someone, other than the father/mother is with your kid more than you are, you SUCK and you should cut your wrists! Seriously ppl, i don't understand how you bring a child into this world and don't try to be the best parent you can be. It is truly sad when someone is more concerned about their latest "boo" than they are about their offspring. Or when someone is thinking about bringing another child into this corrupt world when 1- they cant financially support themselves OR their first kid && 2- the father is a dead beat with NO job and still lives at home with mommy. Don't get me wrong, if he lives with his mother and he actually supports her or takes care of her, that's a completely different story. BUT if he's in his mid-20's with NO job and still asks mommy for an allowance, run the other way !

What do you ppl think a kid is, a new pet?! a new accessory?! ppl that pop out kids to "tie-down" their partner, should lose all rights as a parent. As cruel as that sounds, the kid is better off anyways. I'm not saying "parents" have to be "perfect", but you should try to be the best you can. and if your best is leaving your kid at home with your mom so you can go party for the weekend, you should of swallowed!!!!!

P.S.
If you have to remind the world what a good parent you supposedly are, chances are you're not.

-sighs...that is all for now.

1 comment:

  1. Yeay!! 1st i think ? i love blogs lol...im glad u said what i didnt wanna say..but mother or fathers who do that know why they do it. As 4 me i always write about my boo cus im with her 24/7 n prob will be til shes 1. Tried clubbin n i last about 1 hour before i run home cus i miss her lil face. Thats when i realized im a mom now but havin u time is also important or u will go crazy like me.. Gen_nlove

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